I experienced my first loss when my father passed away. It opened my eyes about this bitter natural phenomenon. I have spent a lot of times pondering about life. After which I have been sensitive and very aware of people I know who are sick and who died. I have a list of the people I know who passed away and I pray for them.
One man who was at my father’s wake and who was helping us around died after a month .
Another family friend we called on the phone to inform them of what happened to my father also passed away in two months.She was sick and was on chemo during the times my Dad was in the hospital.
When I got back to the US,the same fate happened to this old man I always talk to in school. He went to Manila for a vacation. I saw his son and I asked how he was doing. And I was shocked and got teary eyed when he said that he was gone.
Now I heard about some women I know who are sick with Cancer. They happened to be my school mate/classmate. One was from elementary and the other one was from high school. They are the same age as me. They are moms too just like me. And from the time I heard about their fight, I pray for them so they will have courage, strength and most importantly be healed.
I remember other friends who have been battling with disease/sickness for years.
I pray that the sick will be healed. The dead will have peace, happiness, and eternal life. And I wish for us who are left in this world, that we will see life as a gift everyday. That we will be more appreciative and grateful for everything. That we will try to live our lives to their fullest.
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Khris, My dad’s death was the first I had experienced as well. It seems after that experience that you are surrounded by death at every turn. But, you express it so well in your post, that death is not a part of life, but, rather, a transition point that opens to all the fruits of our just labors on earth.
-Alan
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You said it very well. After that experience, “you are surrounded by death at every turn”. That’s the feeling.
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But don’t pay so much attention to death that it keeps us from living. After all, the greatest honor given to God and our parents is to live the gift of life given to us by them, and live it courageously and well.
-Alan
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I am getting there. I noticed that this has been a process and I am starting to understand and accept it. Thank you : )
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So long as we keep trying we never fall into despair.
-Alan
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